Margarita's rememberance of Jerez, Zacatecas

Hi Irma,
I had never heard of Dia de los Muertos either!  My paternal family (Zacatecas) and my maternal family (Jalisco)  didn't observe it at all, I saw it on television and asked my 84 year old father and he said they didn't do that in Jerez.. I'm assuming the custom came more from the Indeginous side of our heritage?  Burial customs vary so much from culture to culture. 
 
 My mother died many years ago but purchased a burial site in Stockton Ca. that has one plot on top of another. My father calls it a 'condo' and doesn't like the idea of being buried on top of her!   I do find it very interesting that the Mexican culture which holds it's elders in such high esteem does not like to "visit" them once they die?  Maybe the fact that they have to bury their loved ones themselves, even preparing them for burial, digging the hole and dropping them into it makes the difference.  Here stateside we sanitize it and only have to show up for the services.  Strangers do the rest for us, keeps

http://www.obispadozacatecas.org.mx/M7.htm

Joseph,
 
A reminder that not all churches in Zacatecas belong to El Arzobisbado de Zacatecas. When we were in Tlachichila and Nochistlan last September they were heavily advertising a conference in Guadalajara for all parishes in El Arzobispado de Guadalajara. I asked them about this and they said that Tlachichila and Nochistlan belong to El Arzobispado de Guadalajara and not Zacatecas even though they are in the state of Zacatecas. These towns are much closer to Guadalajara and at one time this was the state of Jalisco until General Santa Ana decided to punish the political leaders of this region by changing the states' boundaries. A very small portion of Nochistlan lies within the state of Jalisco and it's less than an hour away from Mexticacan, Jalisco and about an hour from Teocaltiche, Yahualica and Jalostitlan Jalisco.
 
Alicia
 
Carol Lester wrote:

Hello Joseph:

I was wondering if you have a copy of the Momax, Zacatecas or Los Velas Momax, Zacatecas areas of the

http://www.obispadozacatecas.org.mx/M7.htm

Carol
Last May I put together a word.doc for you listing
the 80 documents of the 147 that we printed on our last trip to SLC. 
Since you said couldn't open up the e-mail version of the word.doc, I snail
mailed it out to you.    I haven't heard from you so  don't
know if you received the copy.   I know we printed many Alvarez 
and Campos bapt, marriages etc, because we worked from your e-mail listing 
requesting these documents.
If you want copies of those documents we printed and have,
please highlight the documents on the word.doc we sent to you and mail it
back to us. 
 
 
Other Ranchos members:
I have attached the 5 page  word.doc again in
case anyone else is researching those surnames.
 
For those of you that can't open the word.doc, following is
a list of the 80 surnames on these documents coming from: 
Momax,  Los Velas,  Huejucar, Jalostotitlan, Tlaltenango,
Cuculiten, Los Belas, Santa Ana, Potrecillo, Canada de Guzman, Barranca, Puerto
de San Jose
 
Alvares 25

Margarita's rememberance of Jerez, Zacatecas

I envy you Linda.  I tried to get my dad and family in
Mexico to take me to the cemetery where my grandmother was buried.  My
dad interrupted and refused to take me there.  His response was, "Why
do you want to go to a place where everyone is dead when you have all of these
live relatives?"  Okay how do you respond when your "live" relatives are
staring at you.  Enjoying history, I have always "enjoyed" going to
cemeteries because there is so much history there.  No, I don't like
funerals though.  Next time I will go on my own even if I have to walk
there.
Along the same vein...  a few years ago, I was asked
to do a cultural presentation of sorts to my daughter's class around
Halloween.  I decided to build "un altar" for El Dia de los Muertos. 
When I asked my parents about this custom, they said, " We don't do that.  
Once we bury our dead, we go to church have Masses said for them, pray for
them, but we don't hang out at cemeteries."  I actually had to do research
on

http://www.obispadozacatecas.org.mx/M7.htm

Hello Joseph:

I was wondering if you have a copy of the Momax, Zacatecas or Los Velas Momax, Zacatecas areas of the mexican phone book?  If so, is there any 'Campos' or 'Alvarez' names you could send me?  I haven't made much progress with any new information for my mexican families.  Especially Alvarez!  I am beginning to think my father's father was a 'myth'!!  I went to the obispadozacatecas.org.mx/M7.htm site, but I don't understand what it is.  Can you educate me?

Regards,
Carol Lester

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Sent: Jun 30, 2005 6:44 PM
To: LosRanchos 
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Awhile back I sent in the story "Muchacha" attached here as well. where
i was told that my great grandmother was so poor that she needed to ask
another family if she could drop a bundle that carried her child in the
grave with the person they were burying.



joseph



Alberto Duarte wrote:

They still bury people in that cemetery.  I saw the
grave diggers taking dirt out of an existing burial so
that it could accommodate a coffin atop of the
existing one!  Some families are so poor that they
bury relatives atop of existing coffins/sites.  

Yes, when I was inside that old cemetery I felt that I
was among my past relatives.

Alberto.

--- Erlinda Castanon-Long 
wrote:

  
The whole idea of death in the District of Jerez is
different than here stateside.  I wanted to visit
all the cemeteries I'd found in the research
records.  Our host could not understand my desire to
go to cemeteries, he said the past was the past!  He
did take us to the cemetery in Los Aros

Margarita's rememberance of Jerez, Zacatecas

They still bury people in that cemetery.  I saw the
grave diggers taking dirt out of an existing burial so
that it could accommodate a coffin atop of the
existing one!  Some families are so poor that they
bury relatives atop of existing coffins/sites.  

Yes, when I was inside that old cemetery I felt that I
was among my past relatives.

Alberto.

--- Erlinda Castanon-Long 
wrote:

> The whole idea of death in the District of Jerez is
> different than here stateside.  I wanted to visit
> all the cemeteries I'd found in the research
> records.  Our host could not understand my desire to
> go to cemeteries, he said the past was the past!  He
> did take us to the cemetery in Los Aros/Los Haros, I
> found all the names I have been researching clear
> back to the 1750's.  One could almost feel the
> ancestors... I also went to the cemetery in El
> Durazno.  They absolutely refused to take me to
> Panteon de los Dolores in Jerez, they said enough
> was enough...
>  
>  I

2002 Phone Book of Macias/Durante

Thank you.

Alberto.

--- Joseph Puentes  wrote:

> 
> 
> Alberto Duarte wrote:
> 
> >Yes, also send me a scan of the Duartes.
> >
> >Thank you.
> >
> >Hey, Jose, we could be related!
> >  
> >
> 


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Margarita's rememberance of Jerez, Zacatecas

The whole idea of death in the District of Jerez is different than here stateside.  I wanted to visit all the cemeteries I'd found in the research records.  Our host could not understand my desire to go to cemeteries, he said the past was the past!  He did take us to the cemetery in Los Aros/Los Haros, I found all the names I have been researching clear back to the 1750's.  One could almost feel the ancestors... I also went to the cemetery in El Durazno.  They absolutely refused to take me to Panteon de los Dolores in Jerez, they said enough was enough...
 
 I did notice in Jerez that coffins are sold in shops that display them in the window, that was kinda shocking to me. They said when someone dies they have to be buried within 24 hours since they don't embalm.  In El Durazno they have the "viewing" in the home then go to the church for the service and then carry the coffin on their shoulders,complete with Mariachi's if they can afford them, and walk the 1/2 mile to the cemetery in a

Tamales and mole

I guess you're right, we did eat well at the expense of hotel rooms & baths!
We only ate out in Mexico because it was cheaper to feed a family of eight
with big appetites. :)  Occasional burgers in the U.S. happened more rarely.

During our trips, we would pile into a hotel room the night before arriving
to our first destination: Ags (my dad's family immigrated there from Jal.in
the 1950's) for showers.  The other 2 nights were spent in the car.  

-----Original Message-----
From: Alberto Duarte [mailto:albertodua@...] 
Sent: Thursday, June 30, 2005 8:32 AM
To: ranchos@yahoogroups.com
Subject: RE: [ranchos] Re: Tamales and mole

You ate real good!  I envy you.  I can count the number of times on my left
hand that my dad took us to a restaurant.

Alberto.

--- Irma GomezLucero  wrote:

> You're right Alberto.  I recall when I lived in San Diego, a 
> Mexican-Amer co-worker telling me that another made tamales funny.  I 
> responded with how does she make them?  He

Margarita's rememberance of Jerez, Zacatecas

I visited the same cemetery when I visited Jerez a
number of years ago.  I took photographs of the
headstones (those that I thought that were related to
me).  The church and cemetery were probably very
beautiful in their time, but yes, the site has been
neglected.  

Alberto.

--- Margarita Vallazza  wrote:

> Dear Jose,
> It's not a very big town but it is a lovely one!  I
> did get to go to a 
> cemetery called El Panteon de Dolores (there was
> more to the name, but 
> I cannot recall it.)  It was very interesting.  Some
> of graves are 
> covered by elaborate headstones and huge carved
> marblery.  A few are 
> very distant relatives or family connections of my
> grandmother's.  What 
> was also sad about this site was that here these
> folks had spent a LOT 
> of money to perpetuate their existence and the
> cemetery was so 
> neglected and overgrown with weeds.  One grave had a
> broken slab and 
> bees had made their hive inside.  My husband, our
> guide, and

Tamales and mole

You ate real good!  I envy you.  I can count the
number of times on my left hand that my dad took us to
a restaurant.

Alberto.

--- Irma GomezLucero  wrote:

> You're right Alberto.  I recall when I lived in San
> Diego, a Mexican-Amer
> co-worker telling me that another made tamales
> funny.  I responded with how
> does she make them?  He answered that she folded
> them instead of tying the
> ends with a small strip of hoja.  I smiled because
> we fold them, and I kept
> wondering why they tied the ends in all of the
> Mexican restaurants in San
> Diego.  This is when I discovered that this was how
> they made them in Baja
> California where my first co-worker's mom was from,
> and many of the
> restaurant cooks in the area.  By the way, I vote
> San Diego for the best
> Mexican restaurants.  In San Diego, my husband & I
> never got that stuffed
> feeling we often get from Northern Calif. Mexican
> restaurants, unlike my
> mom's.  
> 	I remember while traveling to

Tamales and mole

You're right Alberto.  I recall when I lived in San Diego, a Mexican-Amer
co-worker telling me that another made tamales funny.  I responded with how
does she make them?  He answered that she folded them instead of tying the
ends with a small strip of hoja.  I smiled because we fold them, and I kept
wondering why they tied the ends in all of the Mexican restaurants in San
Diego.  This is when I discovered that this was how they made them in Baja
California where my first co-worker's mom was from, and many of the
restaurant cooks in the area.  By the way, I vote San Diego for the best
Mexican restaurants.  In San Diego, my husband & I never got that stuffed
feeling we often get from Northern Calif. Mexican restaurants, unlike my
mom's.  
	I remember while traveling to Mexico as a kid to visit my abuelitos,
we used to have some of the best steaks in the Northern states from Ciudad
Juarez through Durango, Zacatecas, etc., to our final destination: San Juan
de los Lagos.  My dad would give

Margarita's rememberance of Jerez, Zacatecas

Dear Jose,

It's not a very big town but it is a lovely one! I did get to go to a cemetery called El Panteon de Dolores (there was more to the name, but I cannot recall it.) It was very interesting. Some of graves are covered by elaborate headstones and huge carved marblery. A few are very distant relatives or family connections of my grandmother's. What was also sad about this site was that here these folks had spent a LOT of money to perpetuate their existence and the cemetery was so neglected and overgrown with weeds. One grave had a broken slab and bees had made their hive inside. My husband, our guide, and myself were the only ones there and it was a sobering experience.



Sorry, I don't know anyone's address or anything. Leonardo de la Torre Berumen and Bernardo del Hoyo Calzada are two gentlemen whom I met on my trip. Bernardo and Leonardo collaborate a lot on historical research. You might be able to get Leonardo's email address from Mimi Lozano's Somos Primos

Jerez, Zacatecas: 2002 Phone Book of Macias

Yes, also send me a scan of the Duartes.

Thank you.

Hey, Jose, we could be related!



Alberto.

--- Joseph Puentes  wrote:

> Jose,
> 
> I have a 2002 phone book that has a section for
> Jerez. Would you like 
> for me to send you a scan of all the Macias?
> 
> joseph
> 
> 
> zendean wrote:
> 
> >Margarita;
> >    My great grandfather and ggmother were from
> Jerez, Zacatecas. I wonder, 
> >is it a big town ? Francisco Macias and his wife
> Leonarda Ramirez are and 
> >have always been a mystery to me. My Aunt told me
> that they visited them in 
> >Zacatecas when they were little and that the
> Macias's lived on a farm there.
> >    I wonder if you know some one that is there now
> that I can correspond 
> >with to ask about them.
> >
> >Jose Macias
> >usa20@...
> >
> >
> >
> >
> >----- Original Message ----- 
> >From: "Margarita Vallazza" 
> >To: 
> >Sent: Sunday, June 26, 2005 8:51 AM
> >Subject: Re: [ranchos] FOOD:Mole/Pipian

Jerez, Zacatecas: 2002 Phone Book of Macias

Jose,



I have a 2002 phone book that has a section for Jerez. Would you like
for me to send you a scan of all the Macias?



joseph





zendean wrote:

Margarita;
    My great grandfather and ggmother were from Jerez, Zacatecas. I wonder, 
is it a big town ? Francisco Macias and his wife Leonarda Ramirez are and 
have always been a mystery to me. My Aunt told me that they visited them in 
Zacatecas when they were little and that the Macias's lived on a farm there.
    I wonder if you know some one that is there now that I can correspond 
with to ask about them.

Jose Macias
usa20@...




----- Original Message ----- 
From: "Margarita Vallazza" 
To: 
Sent: Sunday, June 26, 2005 8:51 AM
Subject: Re: [ranchos] FOOD:Mole/Pipian/Genealogy


  
My dad's mother was from Jerez, Zacatecas, and she died just before my
sixth birthday so I don't have a lot of memories of her but here's one
or two:

I remember her fixing something called atole

Margarita's rememberance of Jerez, Zacatecas

Margarita;

My great grandfather and ggmother were from Jerez, Zacatecas. I wonder,
is it a big town ? Francisco Macias and his wife Leonarda Ramirez are and
have always been a mystery to me. My Aunt told me that they visited them in
Zacatecas when they were little and that the Macias's lived on a farm there.
I wonder if you know some one that is there now that I can correspond
with to ask about them.


Jose Macias
usa20@...




----- Original Message -----
From: "Margarita Vallazza"

To: 
Sent: Sunday, June 26, 2005 8:51 AM
Subject: Re: [ranchos] FOOD:Mole/Pipian/Genealogy


My dad's mother was from Jerez, Zacatecas, and she died just before my
sixth birthday so I don't have a lot of memories of her but here's one
or two:

I remember her fixing something called atole, which I didn't like, but
remembering it from a fog of some years' distance, I would say it's a
healthy drink.  She also had prunes in her oatmeal, so when I'd pop in

Tamales and mole

It's all regional:
Funny, if you ask the people from Zacatecas if their
food tastes better, 99% will tell you that there is
food is much better.  And if ask the people of Jalisco
if their food tastes better, 99% will tell you that
their food is better.  To me, the Mexican food here in
California is the best (But I won't tell that to my
wife).

Alberto.

--- Alicia Carrillo  wrote:

> Irma,
>  
> Jalostitlan and Tlachichila Zacatecas are only about
> 2 hours from each other so I''m sure that many foods
> are very similar, this must be one of those foods.
>  
> Alicia
> 
> Irma GomezLucero  wrote:
> Alicia,
>     You're making me hungry.  My parents used to
> make the agua fresca w/ lettuce & fruits. 
> Unfortunately we didn't appreciate it because of the
> lettuce.  My folks are from Jalostotitlan, Jalisco.
> Irma
> 
> 
> ---------------------------------
> From: Alicia Carrillo [mailto:alliecar@...] 
> Sent: Tuesday, June 28, 2005 10:48 PM
> To: ranchos

Alberto Duarte and the St. Xavier catholic church in El Paso

St. Xavier is near the Alameda and Piasano streets
that are just west of Washington Park.  Most of the
old homes have been torn down (probably because the
area was becoming a slum area).  Nearby, there is a 6
lane bridge crossing over to Juarez.  From the bridge
you can see St. Xavier. 

Most of people that lived in the St. Xavier church
area were originally from Chihuahua, such as my
mother's family, and many were from Zacatecas/Durango,
such as my father's family.  The great majority of the
people were very poor, but their sons and daughters
eventually made the core of our great generation--hard
working, outstanding citizens.  Many of the second
generation want on to become doctors, lawyers,
engineers, actors (Antony Quinn, Gilbert Roland),
teachers, politicians, war heros, and athletics (Ted
Williams mother was from there).

The next generation will even be greater!

Alberto.



--- Margarita Vallazza  wrote:

> Where is St. Xavier's?  I don't recall ever hearing
>

Altos de Jalisco

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Is Altos de Jalisco an area?  Is it in the northeastern part of the
state?  I am beginning to see a connection between people from the western
part of Michoacan (Tangancicuaro), as weel as areas in Zacatecas.  By the
way, my husband is from the municipality area of Tangancicuaro - what surprised
me about this beautiful area is how "green" everything was - it is very fertile
ground, in this rolling foot hills area.

 

Esperanza

Alberto Duarte and the St. Xavier catholic church in El Paso

Margarita,
 
I have to say I am a bit jealous and even though I'm jealous I do love it. After all isn't this why we belong to this group? As they say in AA. keep coming back and keep working it, it works if you do the work and boy is it work but it's also a lot of fun.
 
Alicia

Margarita Vallazza wrote:

Where is St. Xavier's? I don't recall ever hearing the name. I used
to go to Sacred Heart and then after we moved when I was 8 to Little
Flower (over by Lakeside Shopping Center) and finally to St. Joseph's
which was the closest Catholic church near our house when we lived near
5 points. Don't y'all just love this conversation? I do! Marge:)
On Jun 29, 2005, at 10:06 AM, Alberto Duarte wrote:

> Jose, you can probably find or contact your Macias
> clan members in El Paso if you go to the old
> neighborhood and search for them. 
>
> Your grandfather was probably well know in the old
> barrio.  My uncle Jesus Duarte still lives in the old
> barrio and he probably knew some of