Question about Confirmations, and Expuestos

Not offended at all.

Of course I was brought up over here, not in mexico. I think we left there
for good when I was like 4 or 5.


But I was baptized as a baby a couple months old, then when I was like in
first grade I went to catacizim and then made my first communinon, then 13
or 14 my confirmation.


But I guess things are just different everywhere and with each family also.



              ~~glo~~






From: Smiley 
Reply-To: ranchos@yahoogroups.com
To: ranchos@yahoogroups.com
Subject: RE: [ranchos] Re: Question about Confirmations, and Expuestos
Date: Mon, 18 Apr 2005 10:56:55 -0700 (PDT)

...I'm not going to beg to differ with anyone, as I am NOT an authority on
this subject. I spoke in more detail with my MIL and she said that the child
is baptized when they are under 1 year old, then at the age of 3 or later,
they are then confirmed. The timeframe depends on the parents. If the
child has NOT been presented to the church before this time, then

Question about Confirmations, and Expuestos

I made my confirmation in my teen years, not shure which but I think it was
like 13 or 14.




              ~~glo~~






From: Alicia Carrillo 
Reply-To: ranchos@yahoogroups.com
To: ranchos@yahoogroups.com
Subject: Re: [ranchos] Question about Confirmations, and Expuestos
Date: Sat, 16 Apr 2005 22:50:30 -0700 (PDT)

Chris, this all depends on which years you're looking for. In most parishes
this occured at the same time as baptism and in some parishes shortly there
after.


Alicia

Chris Pineda  wrote:
Hey all,

I was hoping for some quick guidance. I requested and
received the baptism microfilm to determine the names
of the parents of my great-grandfather Nicanor Pineda,
born in Tlaltenango.

The problem is that this is the second time, where I
haven't found him for the timeframe in which he was
born.  This has led me to believe that perhaps he was
born in some other city around Tlaltenango and later
moved there.

Anyway, I'm requesting the marriage

Confirmaciones, Expuestos

If one thinks about it, an "expuesto" child was placed
(whether physically or metaphorically) on the doorstep of a church or a home and
"exposed" to the elements, to the scorn and ridicule of the public, and to
take on the sin of its parents.  Illegitimate children paid for their being
the union of the unmarried.  They couldn't hold certain positions or go to
some universities.  It was a terrible existence, and it was not their
fault.  Marge
----- Original Message -----
Sent: Tuesday, April 19, 2005 11:42
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Subject: [ranchos] Re: Confirmaciones,
Expuestos

Hello, everyone,
 
I am like Christopher; I don't know much Spanish or the practices in the
Catholic Church, even though I was baptized and confirmed.  I was
baptized in New Mexico at the age of a few months, then my mother told me that
I was confirmed at the age of 2.  She told me this because when we moved
to California, my little

Confirmaciones, Expuestos

Hello, everyone,
 
I am like Christopher; I don't know much Spanish or the practices in the Catholic Church, even though I was baptized and confirmed.  I was baptized in New Mexico at the age of a few months, then my mother told me that I was confirmed at the age of 2.  She told me this because when we moved to California, my little friends asked me why I had never made my first Communion.  I asked my Mother why, and she said it was not necessary since I had been baptized and confirmed by a bishop in New Mexico.  I don't remember the slap on the face, but I do remember the bishop being angry at me because I kept trying to take his hat and the little bottle of oil from him.  He told my aunt who was holding me in her arms to hold my hands so that he could get on with the ritual.  Strange that I remember that.
 
Later, when I wanted to get married in California, my husband said I had to make my first communion in order to receive the sacrament of matrimony.  I went to classes at the age

confirmations, baptisms & expuestos

To add a note to the conversation about confirmations - I've read hundreds of confirmation records, both in Mexico and Puerto Rico, and they are not usually worth reading unless you're really desperate.  Most list no dates and no parents, and give just the child's name and the padrinos.  

And as for the expuestos, I've come across several who were expuesto en la casa de Don So and So; and I've found them being married 20 years later or included in a will, and listed as Don or Doñã -- hijo/hija natural de, or hijo/hija reconocido de ---, the natural children of the son or daughter or of the master of the house, but unacknowledged at the time of birth because, for people of a certain social status, to have a child out of wedlock wasn't socially unacceptable. 

I've come across several reference to baptisms in Mexico of children over three months old, and the priest explained in the record that the delay was caused by the fact that the rivers were so high that it prevented the child from

Confirmaciones

...Irma...you were confirmed at a very beautiful church!  I remember the 1st time I went to Mexico to meet the future inlaws.  They lived in Lagos de Moreno but were going to go to Guadalajara to pick up my MIL's Mother, so she could go to church.
 
I was dumb and kinda naive at that time, as I did not pay much attention to distance.  I was only the driver.  Here we head out west on 80, and the next thing I really noticed was all these people walking along the road.  Mind you it was about 4:30 in the morning, and no, I did not pay attention to the time.  All I know is that there are lots of people walking along the side of the road and at times in the road. I was thinking these poor people must have to go along ways to get to there jobs.
 
Finally when I almost hit 3 men for crawling on their kness in the road, as I almost didn't see them, did my future husband explain to me where and why they were on the road.  He then proceeded to explain to me that this was done on each year as the

Confirmaciones

I honestly take no offense.  I only have my
recollections, my parents, and local American priest as my resource.  I was
confirmed at the old ripe age of 16 in San Juan de los Lagos, Jal.  Why so
late you ask?  This was due to my dad taking me out of CCD classes in 7th
grade in the US.  Yes, one of his many whims.  :)  Confirmations
in the US at that time were normally done in 8th Grade (13 years). 
 
My church--(I am a practicing Catholic) will have the
individual receive this sacrament when they are ready after 7 years of age--of
course after Baptism.  My daughter just received Confirmation this past
November at her request.  She is 12 years old.  We attended a series
of classes, and it was explained to us that Confirmation used to take place at
1-2, etc., --essentially what I said in an earlier
email. 
 
Anyway getting back to my experience of receiving
Confirmation in San Juan.  The Bishop actually passed me up because he
thought that I was a Godmother.  I was

Confirmaciones

...Steve...my husband remembers his to, but he was slapped hard so I guess that tells you how my husband had behaved growing up...:))  This has been a great topic and learning from everyone.  Thank you for sharing yours...
 
Smiley


"Steve G. Apodaca" wrote:


Hola Chris

Well I was raised Catholic in Mexico. I got my confirmation when I
was 13 or 14, I do not remember exactly. The same thing happened to
my brother who is 3 years older. However, my oldest brothers and
sisters, as well as my parents, were confirmed on their childhood
soon after they were born. Once, I asked my grandma why I did not
have my confirmation when I was baptized, and she told me that in the
past, it was a common practice to confirm children before their
second birthday; however, some priests adviced the parents no to get
the confirmation at that age and wait until the child was 13 years
old, so that he/she could be able to understand the real meaning of
confirmation. I remember that I had to go to

Question about Confirmations, and Expuestos

...Chris & Maria...Thank you so much for not getting upset with me.  I promise I was just trying to help.  I most definitely will learn from what all you have shared with us.  I love to learn from everybody and I usually do...even when I don't want to admit it...smile!  I hope you do let us know what you find out Chris, as I am pretty sure it will help the rest of us.  Thanks again Maria, for your kind understanding...
 
Still Learning,
 
Smiley


Chris Pineda
wrote:


I appreciate all the help people have given me on my
questions.

In regard to the 'Expuestos" question, I did notice
that what followed the 'Expuestos' heading were a
series of names without last names or parental
information (unlike the regular baptism records). So
the notion that these children were abandoned makes
sense. This was for baptism records in the 1850s for
Monterrey, Nuevo Leon.

As for the Confirmations question, the timeframe I was
looking was for in the Tlaltenango records was 1895 or
so, so if I find

Confirmaciones

Hola Chris

Well I was raised Catholic in Mexico. I got my confirmation when I 
was 13 or 14, I do not remember exactly. The same thing happened to 
my brother who is 3 years older. However, my oldest brothers and 
sisters, as well as my parents, were confirmed on their childhood 
soon after they were born. Once, I asked my grandma why I did not 
have my confirmation when I was baptized, and she told me that in the 
past, it was a common practice to confirm children before their 
second birthday; however, some priests adviced the parents no to get 
the confirmation at that age and wait until the child was 13 years 
old, so that he/she could be able to understand the real meaning of 
confirmation. I remember that I had to go to saturday classes to 
prepare for my first communion for a couple years, and an extra year 
of classes to get my confirmation. 

After that year of studying, I received my confirmation from the 
bishop of Ciudad Guzman who put some oil on my forehead and then

Question about Confirmations, and Expuestos

I appreciate all the help people have given me on my
questions. 

In regard to the 'Expuestos" question, I did notice
that what followed the 'Expuestos' heading were a
series of names without last names or parental
information (unlike the regular baptism records). So
the notion that these children were abandoned makes
sense. This was for baptism records in the 1850s for
Monterrey, Nuevo Leon.

As for the Confirmations question, the timeframe I was
looking was for in the Tlaltenango records was 1895 or
so, so if I find anything I'll be sure to let you
know. 

Again, I really appreciate all the emails.

Chris Pineda

--- readysetgo95814  wrote:

> 
> No offense taken.  We are all here to learn and
> benefit from each 
> other's experiences.  I myself was born in
> Guadalajara and I was 
> confirmed shortly after I was baptized. Within a
> year of my 
> baptism.  So was everyone I knew. I think Chris'
> question was 
> related to an ancestor so I answered it according to
> the

Question about Confirmations, and Expuestos

No offense taken.  We are all here to learn and benefit from each 
other's experiences.  I myself was born in Guadalajara and I was 
confirmed shortly after I was baptized. Within a year of my 
baptism.  So was everyone I knew. I think Chris' question was 
related to an ancestor so I answered it according to the timeframe 
Chris was referring to (1800's or so) for a gggreat-grandfather.

The records I have examined for expuestos are pretty clear in the 
language they use that the child was abandoned.  They list no 
parents' names and the child is not given a surname.  They are also 
very specific as to the location where the child was left.  Such as, 
being left on the doorstep of Don Ygnacio Sánchez.  They also say 
the child is being baptized, not just blessed.  Thus, you find them 
in the baptismal books, as Chris did.

I also do not profess to be an authority on the subject, but only 
speak from my own limited experience.

Maria

--- In ranchos@yahoogroups.com, Smiley 

Question about Confirmations, and Expuestos

...I'm not going to beg to differ with anyone, as I am NOT an authority on this subject. I spoke in more detail with my MIL and she said that the child is baptized when they are under 1 year old, then at the age of 3 or later, they are then confirmed.  The timeframe depends on the parents.  If the child has NOT been presented to the church before this time, then anyone can present the child to the Father to have that child blessed (expuesto).  My MIL was born & raised in Mexico and up until a few years ago, lived there her whole life.  I did not mean to upset anyone with my reply so if I did, I apologize...
 
Smiley
 


Irma GomezLucero wrote:
I'm with Maria on this.  Confirmations in Mexico take place at about 2 years old after the Baptism has been received. 
 
In the USA, Confirmations take place or should I say used to take place around 12-13 years of age when a child was old of enough to "Confirm" that they wanted to be a member of the church--This has changed

Club Zacatecano, Los Caxcanes of Tlachichila

Good for Alicia and Club Zacatecas. I second your
sentiments, Smiley.
 
Zendean
----- Original Message -----
From:
Smiley
Sent: Sunday, April 17, 2005 11:04
PM
Subject: Re: [ranchos] Club Zacatecano,
Los Caxcanes of Tlachichila

...Alicia, that is great news.  I am sure
the group will grow & prosper when more people understand what the group
is for.  I have family, but from Rancho Los Ramirez, Rio Grande,
ZAC.  I wish you only the best of luck.  Please keep us informed as
to the progress of the meetings...
 
Smiley
Norman, OK


Alicia Carrillo alliecar@...>
wrote:
I am so excited I know you can all hear me sing and dance. This
afternoon I attended my first meeting for a newly formed group. It's called
Los Caxcanes de Tlachichila and it falls under the purview of La Federacion
de Clubes Zacatecanos de el Norte de California. Meaning that it is fully
sanctioned by the Club

Question about Confirmations, and Expuestos

I'm with Maria on this.  Confirmations in Mexico take
place at about 2 years old after the Baptism has been received. 
 
In the USA, Confirmations take place or should I say used
to take place around 12-13 years of age when a child was old of enough to
"Confirm" that they wanted to be a member of the church--This has changed quite
recently to as early as 7 years of age.   
 
Not so in Mexico--this  sacrament is usually received
at the age of 2. 
 
Expuesto means the child was left or abandoned on someone's
doorstep with parents unknown. 
 
Irma

From: Smiley [mailto:smileysway2@...]

Sent: Monday, April 18, 2005 6:09 AM
To:
ranchos@yahoogroups.com
Subject: Re: [ranchos] Re: Question about
Confirmations, and Expuestos

...baptisms usually happen within the 1st year
of a child's life; and the confirmations happen when they turn 12-13 years of
age; and as far as "expuestos", my mother in law (who is a devout
Catholic) states this is a word used when the child has NOT been

Question about Confirmations, and Expuestos

...baptisms usually happen within the 1st year of a child's life; and the confirmations happen when they turn 12-13 years of age; and as far as "expuestos", my mother in law (who is a devout Catholic) states this is a word used when the child has NOT been confirmed.  They are outside of the church, or possibly going to another church or have moved out of the area.  I hope this helps you out Chris...
 
Smiley
 

readysetgo95814 wrote:


Hi Chris,

Confirmations usually occurred within the first year of the child's
life.  Shortly after baptism.

Expuestos means children who were abandoned in front of somebody's
doorstep.  Sometimes it was a church, often times it was a private
residence.

Maria

--- In ranchos@yahoogroups.com, Chris Pineda
wrote:
> Hey all,
>
> I was hoping for some quick guidance. I requested and
> received the baptism microfilm to determine the names
> of the parents of my great-grandfather Nicanor Pineda,
> born in Tlaltenango.  
>
> The problem is that

Club Zacatecano, Los Caxcanes of Tlachichila

...Alicia, that is great news.  I am sure the group will grow & prosper when more people understand what the group is for.  I have family, but from Rancho Los Ramirez, Rio Grande, ZAC.  I wish you only the best of luck.  Please keep us informed as to the progress of the meetings...
 
Smiley
Norman, OK


Alicia Carrillo wrote:
I am so excited I know you can all hear me sing and dance. This afternoon I attended my first meeting for a newly formed group. It's called Los Caxcanes de Tlachichila and it falls under the purview of La Federacion de Clubes Zacatecanos de el Norte de California. Meaning that it is fully sanctioned by the Club Zacatecano which is affiliated with the 3x1 in Zacatecas and Mexico City.
 
Prior to tonights meeting the main method of communication and fundrasing was by word of mouth to a very small group of individuals who were continously taxed with raising money for the 3x1. For every dollar raised here,  the fedral government and the state of

Club Zacatecano, Los Caxcanes of Tlachichila

I am so excited I know you can all hear me sing and dance. This afternoon I attended my first meeting for a newly formed group. It's called Los Caxcanes de Tlachichila and it falls under the purview of La Federacion de Clubes Zacatecanos de el Norte de California. Meaning that it is fully sanctioned by the Club Zacatecano which is affiliated with the 3x1 in Zacatecas and Mexico City.
 
Prior to tonights meeting the main method of communication and fundrasing was by word of mouth to a very small group of individuals who were continously taxed with raising money for the 3x1. For every dollar raised here,  the fedral government and the state of Zacatecas matched it with one dollar each. In spite of the small group they have managed to raise money to build the cafeteria for the high school, build the first funeral parlor of the town and built a senior center.
 
The group is planning as a result of tonights meeting it's first dinner dance. We convinced them that not only was it important to

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well i just got back from the beach and promptly delayed in
unsubscribing one but proceeded to unsubscribe 5 individuals. I was
actually very happy that I got as much response as I did from those that
had not submitted their work. . .kinda makes me feel like people are
finding value in what we are doing in Ranchos and making and effort to
stay part of the group. I just want to thank everyone for their
participation and interest in the group. I started Ranchos to help me
and you all have been there ready to help many many times. thanks,


joseph

ps: Here is the letter I sent out to the 5 members

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Question about Confirmations, and Expuestos

Hi Chris,

Confirmations usually occurred within the first year of the child's 
life.  Shortly after baptism. 

Expuestos means children who were abandoned in front of somebody's 
doorstep.  Sometimes it was a church, often times it was a private 
residence. 

Maria

--- In ranchos@yahoogroups.com, Chris Pineda  wrote:
> Hey all,
> 
> I was hoping for some quick guidance. I requested and
> received the baptism microfilm to determine the names
> of the parents of my great-grandfather Nicanor Pineda,
> born in Tlaltenango.   
> 
> The problem is that this is the second time, where I
> haven't found him for the timeframe in which he was
> born.  This has led me to believe that perhaps he was
> born in some other city around Tlaltenango and later
> moved there. 
> 
> Anyway, I'm requesting the marriage records for the
> timeframe I think he was later married in Tlaltenango.
>  But I was also thinking that I could request the
> Confirmation records but I really have no idea

Question about Confirmations, and Expuestos

Chris, this all depends on which years you're looking for. In most parishes this occured at the same time as baptism and in some parishes shortly there after.
 
Alicia

Chris Pineda
wrote:

Hey all,

I was hoping for some quick guidance. I requested and
received the baptism microfilm to determine the names
of the parents of my great-grandfather Nicanor Pineda,
born in Tlaltenango.  

The problem is that this is the second time, where I
haven't found him for the timeframe in which he was
born.  This has led me to believe that perhaps he was
born in some other city around Tlaltenango and later
moved there.

Anyway, I'm requesting the marriage records for the
timeframe I think he was later married in Tlaltenango.
But I was also thinking that I could request the
Confirmation records but I really have no idea when
this usually takes place in someone's life -- I was
not raised Catholic.

On another note, I've noticed a page after each year
of baptism records that says "Expuestos" followed by
a
ser

Question about Confirmations, and Expuestos

Hey all,

I was hoping for some quick guidance. I requested and
received the baptism microfilm to determine the names
of the parents of my great-grandfather Nicanor Pineda,
born in Tlaltenango.   

The problem is that this is the second time, where I
haven't found him for the timeframe in which he was
born.  This has led me to believe that perhaps he was
born in some other city around Tlaltenango and later
moved there. 

Anyway, I'm requesting the marriage records for the
timeframe I think he was later married in Tlaltenango.
 But I was also thinking that I could request the
Confirmation records but I really have no idea when
this usually takes place in someone's life -- I was
not raised Catholic. 

On another note, I've noticed a page after each year
of baptism records that says "Expuestos" followed by a
series of names.  Does anyone know what this means?

Any help is greatly appreciated. Thanks,

Chris Pineda


		
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