I agree and could not have said it as well.
Aqui esta un dicho bien dicho. "A la tierra que fueres hacer lo que vieres". meaning ''in the land that you go to, do as you see. This not only applies to our race and culture but to all other immigrant races and cultures. I have had this conversation with good friends who are of Italian, East Indian, Vietnamese, Persian, Japanese etc.
We all experience the same emotions, stirrings and questions about inculturation, about the loss of our ancestors' heritage and traditions and our language. I believe that some lose their ancestors' identity alltogether and some straddle both cultures and some never leave their ancient cultures.
I have evidence of all of the above just within my siblings. My oldest sister is the most entrenched in our parent's culture and heritage. Two of my youngest siblings have moved completely away from our Mexican Culture and three of us straddle both
cultures leaning equally to both sides, the Mexican and the